Wednesday 25 March 2015

7 Temptations That Can Ruin Your Relationship


There are a few temptations that can ruin your
relationship, no matter how much you love your
man. Unfortunately, we sometimes have desires that
lead to destruction and ruin even the strongest
relationships. That’s why I decided to share this list
of 7 temptations that can ruin your relationship that
you need to be aware of.

1. Constant lying
When you did something that you know your
boyfriend or husband wouldn’t approve of, it can be
tempting to lie to him about it. While it can be easy
to lie, your lies will haunt you down the road. If you
really love each other, you should never be afraid to
tell the truth, no matter how hard it can be. A strong
relationship is never based on lies. Remember it.

2. Desire to cheat on your partner

One of the worst temptations that ruin your
relationships is the desire to cheat on your partner.
If you are in a long lasting relationship and you meet
another man, everything can become so
complicated. The only way to maintain your
relationship strong is to refuse to give into that
dangerous temptation, if you really love your
partner.

3. Stealing your partner’s things

When you are in a long term-relationship and you
are living together, it can be tempting to steal your
partner’s clothes or cash without asking him. While
many couples are okay with it, others are not
comfortable. Your boyfriend/husband has the right
to know what you take or how much money you
take. Don’t take anything without his permission and
you will avoid lots of fights.

4. Spending more time with friends

When you are in a very long-term relationship, you
might get jealous of all of the parties and free time
your friends (especially single ones) have. But, don’t
allow the temptation of alone time to ruin your
relationship. Don’t forget that you can spend time
with your friends; you just need to discuss it with
your partner and rearrange your schedule.

5. Putting no effort into your relationship

Once you have been together for a long time, you
may feel so comfortable that you may stop putting
effort into your relationship. While comfort is a great
thing, it can be dangerous as well. No matter how
long you’ve been together, you still have to put effort
into your relationship to make it last.

6. Constant fights

When you are in a bad mood, it’s so easy to scream
at your partner to let out your emotions, however,
he could get hurt and it can lead to numerous fights.
Don’t risk upsetting your partner, scream into a
pillow if you are tempted to vent. It may sound
funny, but it’s actually work. Never blame your
sweetheart for problems that he didn’t cause. It’s
one of the best ways to keep your relationship
strong.

7. Taking your partner’s efforts for granted

Just because you can walk all over him, doesn’t
mean you should do it. If he washes your clothes for
you and makes you breakfast every single morning,
let him know that his hard work is highly
appreciated. Treat your partner with respect and
don’t take his efforts for granted.
It can be hard to keep the relationship strong,
especially if one of the partners put no effort into it.
If you want your relationship to stay strong, make
sure you don’t act on the aforementioned dangerous
desires. There’s nothing wrong with you, if you have
these desires, but just don’t act on them and ensure
your partner doesn’t act on them as well. Which one
of these desires is the most difficult for you to avoid
succumbing to? Do you know any other temptations
that can ruin a strong relationship

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